Unwritten rules of new environmentsPosted on 21 Jul, 2010
New environments bring new sights, sounds, smells, textures, and people. This can be very intimidating for a toddler with autism and sensory issues. It seems my little one has some unwritten rules in order to survive the new adventure:
1. Everyone but Mommy needs to keep all hands, feet, and objects to yourself.
2. Please stand behind that imaginary line on the floor until I get settled.
3. I need some milk and a cookie.
4. Let me hold and play with a car, truck, train, or airplane.
5. Absolutely no loud noises or sudden movements are allowed until this ride comes to a complete stop or I leave the room.
What he's probably thinking:
1. This place would be so cool if I could play with water or run around a sprinkler.
2. You really need a train table or race track.
3. There needs to be a window where I can look out at the cars and trucks drive by.
When dealing with Autism, a sense of humor is mandatory. My toddler is a blessing. He is such a sweet, strong, and funny man. It's an honor to guide him through his journey.
Tags:
autism,
new environment,
sensory