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Autism and Private Schools
Posted on 17 Aug, 2010

My oldest son, Julian (6), got accepted at St. Anthony's School today. After many nightmarish months battling the public school system, I was just done. He is such a brilliant child, I just want more for him than IEP meetings where nothing ever gets accomplished and an environment where he is not intellectually stimulated. I decided to see if a private school would even accept him....what did I have to lose? It's not like they can take away my birthday or anything...all they could say was "No".


So, I gave this school a call and told them that I had a first-grader that I would like to enroll. I did NOT tell them that Julian is autistic. The whole process could have ended right there. I wanted them to see a very smart little boy before they attach any labels to him. An interview/tour of the school was set up. I made sure to tell them how smart Julian is.


The secretary could hear Julian in the background. He was on the computer navigating Google Earth. He had zoned in on the tallest building in the world which he found on YouTube. The secretary told me that she was going to have the school principal contact me. He called 20 minutes later and Julian was still talking about this building. The principal stated that he himself would like to talk to Julian and would that be okay....


I spent a week as a nervous wreck and finally, showtime arrived this morning. I was prepared to fight but the whole interview went way better than I could have imagined. The pricipal knew right away that Julian is autistic yet high-functioning and he was blown away by Julian. He personally invited Julian to attend first grade! I almost started to cry but I was able to control myself.


I asked the principal why he felt that Julian would thrive at this school. After all, this will be the third school Julian has gone to and he is starting first grade! This school is very strict as most catholic schools are, and the boys and girls wear uniforms. There is no lunchroom, the kids eat at their desks. The principal knows much about Autism and i was told that all of these factors will significantly help Julian. He was very positive and optimistic and so was the rest of the staff. They can't wait to have Julian come to school....insatnt support system here.


I am so proud of Julian I could burst. He conducted himself so well throughout the whole process and he amazed everybody. He walked right over to the globe of the earth in his new classroom and showed us where Finland is, what the weather is like and that the Finnish soldiers fought on skis during World War II. Everybody's jaw dropped...it was awesome. The principal looked at me and stated, "This is an extremely bright little boy you have....we are so pleased that you want to enroll him."


All I have to say is GO JULIAN!!!


Tags: Education,Private Schools
Comments:
jason_halloway Added: 01 Sep, 2010 11:58 am

Still cant even imagine how proud of a parent you are !!!! :-)  

Patsy Added: 30 Aug, 2010 11:48 am

Congrats congrats congrats! Truly a phenomenal achievment   

BarbaraHutch Added: 27 Aug, 2010 12:12 pm

What a phenomenal story. Congratulations!  

jason_halloway Added: 25 Aug, 2010 11:39 am

oh wow...! Congratulations!  

noelbella Added: 24 Aug, 2010 11:46 am

Congrats!!! What a great accomplishment. I can't imagine how proud you are!  

melreindhart Added: 20 Aug, 2010 10:41 am

Amaaaaazing. Definitely gives hope to all of this. Congrats, I can't imagine how thrilled you are as a parent. Quite an accomplishment. :-)  

daiel_boyd Added: 19 Aug, 2010 12:44 pm

Wow!!!
Go JULIAN!!! Great post! Congrats on this, and I highly agree with you...Public Schools are just not as good. As a parent, I would be terrified as well with the 1 on 1 portion of the interview (your child vs the principal). Such an inspiring post and gives us parents hope with this whole educational system!  

jezebelle1248 Added: 18 Aug, 2010 4:49 pm

Hi! I really did not think the school would accept Julian but I had to at least try. The public school system here is really bad and we just can't take anymore of it. I called the pediatrician today for Julian's medical forms for school and the receptionist who talked to me wondered why Julian's school needed an update on his medical forms. I told her that Julian would be going to St. Anthony's and she got so excited she could barely contain herself. She has a 4 year old son on the spectrum who is high-functioning like Julian. She said that she goes past that school every day and was always tempted to try to get her son in but never had the nerve. I told her how we did it and she is going to give it a shot. She has had more problems than we have had with public school and her son is still in Pre-K.....scary. I am praying hard for her and her son. I hope that he gets in too. Thank you for your nice comments. :-)  

sschell73 Added: 18 Aug, 2010 8:58 am

What an accomplishment for a child with autism spectrum disorder to be accepted at a private school because private schools usually do not provide services for students with special needs. If the student has special needs, they usually go to the nearest public school for the services or better yet, keep your child put and keep pressuring the school district's CSE.  


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